Membership Overview

If you want to send personalized messages ( ) to other members then you can get a ULooking4Me.com membership. After the membership fee is paid the
internal ULooking4Me.com messaging service will be unlocked.

There are 4 membership types:

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1. All your messages (sent and received) will remain accessible after a Plus or Full Membership period expires.
2. All Plus and Full Memberships are once off and will not be automatically extended. 
3. Safe and secure payment methods available with Credit Card, through Paypal or a direct transfer.

This means that you are in control whether or not you want to purchase another membership or want to wait a bit when your ULooking4Me.com Plus or Full Membership expires.
A lot of other Online Dating sites do not have this option and with these sites it can be hard to cancel your membership

Membership Type	Valid For(1)	No. of Personalized Messages	Costs (EUR)	Costs ()(2)
Anonymous (not registered)	N/A	N/A	N/A	N/A
Registered Member	Unlimited	N/A	N/A	N/A
Plus Member (3)	30 days	3 messages	€   2.50
	30 days	10 messages	€   7.50
	30 days	20 messages	€ 12.50
Full Member(4)	30 days	Unlimited Messages	€ 14.95
	90 days	Unlimited Messages	€ 37.35
	180 days	Unlimited Messages	€ 59.70
	365 days	Unlimited Messages	€ 89.40

⁽¹⁾ At the end of your membership period your status will be downgraded to Registered Member. All your settings and messages will be unchanged and remain accessible. Please check the functionality table below to discover which functionalities will be available for each membership type.

⁽²⁾ The costs for a membership in your currency.
   Please note: These costs are indicative only and might change depending on the conversion rates.

⁽³⁾ Haven't used all your messages at the end of the period? No problem. All your unused messages will be stored against your account and will be added to your message credits next time when you purchase any other Plus Membership.

⁽⁴⁾ As a Full Member you may send an unlimited amount of personalized messages but please keep in mind that ULooking4Me.com has implemented active monitoring procedures to early detect and eliminated abuse of the service by scammers and other people with fraudulent intensions.

You can terminate your membership and delete your profile at any time.

Any Plus or Full Member membership will NOT be automatically extended at the end of its membership period (see ⁽¹⁾ ) 

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Description (Functionality)	Anonymous	Registered Member	Plus Member	Full Member
Change Settings (Home > Settings)
View Membership Status (Membership)
Create/Edit Profile (Profile)
Create/Edit Personal Ad (Adverts)
Upload Photo's (max 5) (Photos)	max 1
Upload Video Message (Video)
Extensive Search (Search Profile)
Show Interest
Send Personalized Messages
Maintain Favorites.
View Member Photo's
View Video Message
Member Profile I have viewed
Members who have viewed my profile
Hide Profiles
Block Profiles
View Profile	(limited)
Online indicator
Full Member Indicator
Browse your matches
Message Inbox
Send predefined messages
Send personalized messages
Message Outbox
Receive and view predefined messages
Receive and view personalized messages
Online Chat

Why do we have a membership fee for sending personalized messages?

Please read below a couple of reasons why we have a membership fee as in contrast to the "totally" free dating sites:

Free Online Dating sites	www.ULooking4Me.com
Free online dating sites attract all types of rubbish: Nigerian scammers, Russian “mail order brides”, and all types of unstable and wicked people that were banned from quality services. Those people have too much time on their hands (or it is their full-time Internet rip-off occupation) and this is why they don’t mind to hang there. Since the website is free, they do not have much staff on hand to look after it, and check on possible scams. So scammers are free to go wild there.	We have invested heavenly in all sorts of measures to prevent fakers and scammers to enter www.ULooking4Me.com and therefore we do our best to only list REAL people looking to find a new companion or partner.  Read below for a short summary of the measures we have taken to prevent scammers and fakers to enter our site: All sign ups from countries in South Africa and East Europe are blocked because most scams are directed from these countries.  Active checks have been implemented and sign ups from Open Proxy servers and/or from computers that have been listed on DNS blacklists will be blocked. Computers listed on the DNS blacklists have recently been involved in mail scams and/or fraudulent activities. In most cases these computers are infected with Spyware or a virusses without the owner knowing.  Active monitoring of profiles against uploaded photos and profile consistency. Intelligent checking of the adverts on consistency and sexual content which is not allowed.
Free dating sites usually make their revenue from the ads they show to their members. In other words, they aren’t really interested in you actually FINDING someone on their site: they would rather have you frustrated and clicking on the ads you see on their site.	www.ULooking4Me.com DOESN'T HAVE ANY ADVERTISING and therefore our members will not be annoyed with these ads and/or other popups.
Your email address is not safe with a lot of the Free Online Dating sites. They often sell your email address to mass-mailing companies, or running mass-mailings themselves. It means you risk being bombarded with hundreds of commercial emails, day after day	www.ULooking4Me.com DOES NOT SELL or use your email address in any other way then only communicating between the service and our members.
The software on free sites is often inconvenient and the customer support is not really helpfull if there is a customer service at all.	We are proud to have a FRIENDLY CUSTOMER SERVICE TEAM  that will answer and help you with all your questions.
Filtering through heaps of bogus profiles can be maddening and very time consuming. Your time is valuable and you would rather spend it meeting someone for coffee than talking and/or contacting people that aren’t even real.	As mentioned in our first point www.ULooking4Me.com does put a lot of effort in filtering for fakers and scammers. This means that it is more likely that our members have more invested in the process of dating and are therefore MORE SERIOUS in meeting someone else and don't want to play games. * Although we can not 100% guarantee that there will not be any fakers subscribing, we do have implemented a second line of methods that pick up on improper site behaviour.

For all the reasons outlined above, quality people tend to avoid free dating services. Their time is too valuable. If you want to meet a quality person, you are unlikely to meet them on free sites. All in all, free dating sites can be awfully "expensive". They will costs you much more in time and effort then using www.ULooking4Me.com which you can use more productively.